Almost two weeks ago, I found out we were expecting our second child. It was a Monday and we were in a horrible fight. I was suppose to get my period a few days before but got nothing. He went to the drugstore and got me a pregnancy test, just a cheap one. I didn’t trust it so he went back and got two more. They were all positive. There were tears and smiles but neither of us were sure if we were ready to be parents again. The next morning while he was at work I phoned the doctor’s office and made an appointment. The day before my appointment I had a lot a bleeding. I thought maybe I was miscarrying but there was no clots, just blood. I went through 7 pads in about 3 and a half hours and then it just stopped. The next morning when I went to my appointment, my doctor asked if anything unusual had been happening and I explained the bleeding. She sent me for an ultrasound. I found out that I was 5 weeks and I have an ectopic pregnancy. The embryo has implanted at the opening of my fallopian tube. I have surgery in a week to get it removed. Although I’m upset, I’m trying to stay positive. It happened for a reason, we weren’t meant to be parents again this soon. I’ve been told to just live my life as I normally would and not to take any real precautions like I would during a pregnancy because it will be removed anyways. I’ve chosen to tell 3 of my very close friends and no one in my family. I’m sorry if I don’t respond to anyone’s questions or submissions. I hope you all understand.
Friday Dec 2 @ 12:21pm





